Friend’ cock blocking’ me, want advice

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I’m getting too old for this shit. So I’m in my late 30 s, and thought I was done with all the drama and bullshit in dating. Anyway, back in December I feel for a friend of mine. She’s actually older than me, in her early 40 s , not that that’s pertinent to anything. But we got to talking, kind of connected, merely for things to … well sort of fall apart. She still talks to me, but we stopped texting, and I believe she’s concealing some facebook posts from me, and most recently, the other night I believe she was ignoring me.

And … I believe I found out the reason why. Apparently, a mutual friend, who also has a crush on this woman, has been “cock blocking” me. I don’t know what he’s been saying, but apparently he has been talking to her in private, stuff about me, proving her embarrassing pictures of me. I don’t know everything, but I’ve been able to ferret out enough. After finding out, I’ve noticed she pays more attention to him too. I also noticed that he recently added her as a facebook friend, even though he had known her longer than I had, but wasn’t facebook friends with her until about a month ago.

So … my topic is what to do about it? I’m inclined to write her off as a lost cause at this point. She was the first woman I was interested in in a couple years, and the short time we had any kind of connect( or so I thought) was fantastic. I hadn’t been that happy in ages. Now it’s all ruined. I know, you’ll probably tell I’m being too picky or something, but I don’t genuinely care.

I’m going to see her tomorrow night. I’m half seduced to talk to her, tell her the other guy has a massive crush on her and that he’s a “nice guy.” I’ve found that’s the kiss of death right there. Even when women like someone, that phrase kills any sense of attraction. Sure, it’s vindictive, but am I in the wrong for doing it? He pulled the same kind of crap on me.

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