https://www.date4guys.com Advice and information on Dating Tips for Women Sun, 23 Apr 2017 23:03:39 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.7.4 No luck on Tinder/ Bumble https://www.date4guys.com/no-luck-on-tinderbumble-3/ Sun, 23 Apr 2017 22:58:59 +0000 https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/639zl9/no_luck_on_tinderbumble/?ref=search_posts I’m a 22 year old woman living in a good-sized college town. I’ve been trying to use Tinder and/ or Bumble to meet new people, as my circle is relatively small since I graduated from college, but I’m not having a lot of luck. I get perhaps 1 decent message or reply per week( Tinder) […]

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I’m a 22 year old woman living in a good-sized college town. I’ve been trying to use Tinder and/ or Bumble to meet new people, as my circle is relatively small since I graduated from college, but I’m not having a lot of luck. I get perhaps 1 decent message or reply per week( Tinder) or 1 decent reply( Bumble) for every 5-7 messages I send out.

I feel like I’m reasonably attractive( not a 10, maybe a 7 ?) and I have varied interests the hell is showcased in my paintings. I have a normal task with a reasonable salary. My description is short and doesn’t have anything crazy or super out-there/ off-putting. I can’t figure out what I’m doing wrong. I feel like most women on these apps get nonstop attention and even unwanted messages, but I can’t get anyone to talk to me or sustain a good conversation. The last thing I require is more rejection, but I don’t have many good ways to meet new guys.

Does anyone have any tips? What constructs you swipe right on a girl? Do any other women feel this way?

TL; DR Normal, reasonably attractive 22 year old woman can’t get matches on dating apps. Advice?

Edit: Potential answer (?): After browsing some previous Reddit threads, I came to the conclusion that it might help to delete my profile and make a fresh one. Last year, I did have some less flattering photos( shorter hair, heavier, etc .). By resetting, I can see more/ different people who might not have liked my older paintings and could never see new ones. I did this and get more matches in a hour than I typically do in a week. So, thanks Reddit?

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Why do women think I merely want to sleep with them? https://www.date4guys.com/why-do-women-think-i-only-want-to-sleep-with-them-6/ Sat, 22 Apr 2017 22:54:29 +0000 https://www.reddit.com/r/online_dating_advice/comments/631sku/why_do_women_think_i_only_want_to_sleep_with_them/?ref=search_posts I have a problem on these online dating websites. It seems every time I message a woman I get I answer of “Don’t trash your time I am saving myself” or “I am not looking for a one night stand”. Nothing in my profile, messages, or paintings, suggest anything sexual. Literally, after the shit relationships […]

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I have a problem on these online dating websites. It seems every time I message a woman I get I answer of “Don’t trash your time I am saving myself” or “I am not looking for a one night stand”.

Nothing in my profile, messages, or paintings, suggest anything sexual. Literally, after the shit relationships I been in, I would be happy that in 6 months when we hold hand I feel some type of passion towards me. Don’t get me wrong, I think about sex, but holy crap. I would rather have a kickass daughter that is a blast to hangout with. I don’t want a one night stand or a fling. I never even had a one night stand! What the fuck am I doing wrong?

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Advice for a guy in his 20 s who’s terrible at asking out girls in random places https://www.date4guys.com/advice-for-a-guy-in-his-20s-whos-terrible-at-asking-out-girls-in-random-places-3/ Fri, 21 Apr 2017 22:59:35 +0000 https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/63vwk6/advice_for_a_guy_in_his_20s_whos_terrible_at/?ref=search_posts I’ve been single for over 2 years, and haven’t been in a relationship since college. Since graduate, I’ve rarely been in situations where I can meet daughters my age, as I’ve been the youngest one by several years at most of my jobs, and meetup.com has been a similar experience. So I’ve been trying online […]

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I’ve been single for over 2 years, and haven’t been in a relationship since college. Since graduate, I’ve rarely been in situations where I can meet daughters my age, as I’ve been the youngest one by several years at most of my jobs, and meetup.com has been a similar experience. So I’ve been trying online dating, and had terrible results. I rarely get matches or replies, and merely been on a handful of dates, usually never hearing back from them after the first. Which puzzles me, as I did alright in college. The whole affair had recently damaged my self-confidence, and caused me to dwell on my imperfections, to the point it’s hard to imagine I’m the same guy I was a few years ago.

So I’ve realise despite how much I’ve wanted to avoid it, I need to try picking up( not in a pick up artist sense, I’m not the sexuality obsessed kind of guy) girl I see in random places. I largely conquered my social anxiety when I first started going to college, but one thing I’ve never gotten used to is starting conversations with daughters I didn’t have a reason to talk to. It was easy at a club or classroom, because we have something in common and a reason to be there. Striking up a conversation at a supermarket or bookstore is different. Even if I go somewhere like a convention, I’m reluctant to talk to a girl even though it’s in a strictly platonic and friendly style. I’m not sure how much of it is my newfound lack of confidence, but I’m a little too self-conscious to start up conversations with them, because I worry about coming off like a perverted creeping, or if they already have a boyfriend.

I guess this is a longwinded style to ask for advice, either from guys with more dating experience or get where I’m coming from, or women who understand how the girls I want to ask out think. I’m sure I come off as pathetic, but I would appreciate any help.

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Advice for a guy in his 20 s who’s terrible at asking out daughters in random places https://www.date4guys.com/advice-for-a-guy-in-his-20s-whos-terrible-at-asking-out-girls-in-random-places-2/ Thu, 20 Apr 2017 23:29:05 +0000 https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/63vwk6/advice_for_a_guy_in_his_20s_whos_terrible_at/?ref=search_posts I’ve been single for over 2 years, and haven’t been in a relationship since college. Since graduate, I’ve rarely been in situations where I can meet daughters my age, as I’ve been the youngest one by several years at most of my jobs, and meetup.com has been a similar experience. So I’ve been trying online […]

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I’ve been single for over 2 years, and haven’t been in a relationship since college. Since graduate, I’ve rarely been in situations where I can meet daughters my age, as I’ve been the youngest one by several years at most of my jobs, and meetup.com has been a similar experience. So I’ve been trying online dating, and had terrible results. I rarely get matches or responses, and merely been on a handful of dates, usually never hearing back from them after the first. Which puzzles me, as I did alright in college. The whole affair has only injury my self-confidence, and caused me to dwell on my flaws, to the point it’s hard to imagine I’m the same guy I was a few years ago.

So I’ve realized despite how much I’ve wanted to avoid it, I need to try picking up( not in a pick up artist sense, I’m not the sexuality preoccupied kind of guy) girl I see in random places. I largely conquered my social anxiety when I first started going to college, but one thing I’ve never get used to is starting conversations with daughters I didn’t have a reason to talk to. It was easy at a club or classroom, because we have something in common and a reason to be there. Striking up a dialogue at a supermarket or bookstore is different. Even if I go somewhere like a convention, I’m reluctant to talk to a girl even though it’s in a strictly platonic and friendly route. I’m not sure how much of it is my newfound lack of trust, but I’m a little too self-conscious to start up conversations with them, because I worry about coming off like a perverted crawling, or if they already have a boyfriend.

I guess this is a longwinded route to request advice, either from guys with more dating experience or get where I’m coming from, or women who understand how the girls I want to ask out believe. I’m sure I come off as pathetic, but I would appreciate any help.

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Why do girls guess I merely want to sleep with them? https://www.date4guys.com/why-do-women-think-i-only-want-to-sleep-with-them-5/ Wed, 19 Apr 2017 23:03:15 +0000 https://www.reddit.com/r/online_dating_advice/comments/631sku/why_do_women_think_i_only_want_to_sleep_with_them/?ref=search_posts I have a problem on these online dating websites. It seems every time I message a woman I get I answer of “Don’t garbage your time I am saving myself” or “I am not looking for a one night stand”. Nothing in my profile, messages, or paintings, suggest anything sex. Literally, after the shit relationships […]

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I have a problem on these online dating websites. It seems every time I message a woman I get I answer of “Don’t garbage your time I am saving myself” or “I am not looking for a one night stand”.

Nothing in my profile, messages, or paintings, suggest anything sex. Literally, after the shit relationships I been in, I would be happy that in 6 months when we hold hand I feel some type of passion towards me. Don’t get me wrong, I think about sexuality, but holy crap. I would rather have a kickass girl that is a blast to hangout with. I don’t want a one night stand or a fling. I never even had a one night stand! What the fuck am I doing wrong?

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To all of you out there who are focused on “this one girl” https://www.date4guys.com/to-all-of-you-out-there-who-are-focused-on-this-one-girl-6/ Tue, 18 Apr 2017 22:55:42 +0000 https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/63oc1n/to_all_of_you_out_there_who_are_focused_on_this/?ref=search_posts Watch this video Did you watch it? No? Go and watch it. Ok. Now do you realise how ridiculous you voice when you act like there’s only one person in the world for you? Do you realise they’re not perfect like you think they are? That they have flaws just like everybody else? Do you […]

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Watch this video

Did you watch it? No? Go and watch it.

Ok. Now do you realise how ridiculous you voice when you act like there’s only one person in the world for you? Do you realise they’re not perfect like you think they are? That they have flaws just like everybody else? Do you understand that even if you and them aren’t together their own lives will go on? Do you?

Ok. Good.

Now can you guys please try to work on yourselves instead of pouring every ounce of energy into some girl? There are billions of women on this planet. BILLIONS! If things don’t work up with the one you’re obsessing over right now it’s OKAY. You’re going to be fine. There’s another girl out there who’s just as cool and perfect and hot. And she’s looking for a guy like you.

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No luck on Tinder/ Bumble https://www.date4guys.com/no-luck-on-tinderbumble-2/ Mon, 17 Apr 2017 22:54:01 +0000 https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/639zl9/no_luck_on_tinderbumble/?ref=search_posts I’m a 22 year old woman living in a good-sized college township. I’ve been trying to use Tinder and/ or Bumble to meet new people, as my circle is relatively small since I graduated from college, but I’m not having a lot of luck. I get perhaps 1 decent message or response per week( Tinder) […]

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I’m a 22 year old woman living in a good-sized college township. I’ve been trying to use Tinder and/ or Bumble to meet new people, as my circle is relatively small since I graduated from college, but I’m not having a lot of luck. I get perhaps 1 decent message or response per week( Tinder) or 1 decent response( Bumble) for every 5-7 messages I send out.

I feel like I’m reasonably attractive( not a 10, maybe a 7 ?) and I have varied interests the hell is showcased in my paintings. I have a normal job with a reasonable salary. My description is short and doesn’t have anything crazy or super out-there/ off-putting. I can’t figure out what I’m doing wrong. I feel like most women on these apps get nonstop attention and even unwanted messages, but I can’t get anyone to talk to me or sustain a good conversation. The last thing I require is more rejection, but I don’t have many good ways to meet new guys.

Does anyone have any tips-off? What constructs you swipe right on a girl? Do any other women feel this way?

TL; DR Normal, fairly attractive 22 year old woman can’t get matches on dating apps. Advice?

Edit: Potential answer (?): After browsing some previous Reddit threads, I came to the conclusion that it might help to delete my profile and make a fresh one. Last year, I did have some less flattering photos( shorter hair, heavier, etc .). By resetting, I can see more/ different people who might not have liked my older paintings and could never consider new ones. I did this and got more matches in a hour than I typically do in a week. So, thanks Reddit?

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To all of you out there who are focused on “this one girl” https://www.date4guys.com/to-all-of-you-out-there-who-are-focused-on-this-one-girl-5/ Sun, 16 Apr 2017 22:54:33 +0000 https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/63oc1n/to_all_of_you_out_there_who_are_focused_on_this/?ref=search_posts Watch this video Did you watch it? No? Go and watch it. Ok. Now do you realize how ridiculous you sound when you act like there’s only one person in the world for you? Do you realize they’re not perfect like you think they are? That they have flaws just like everyone else? Do you […]

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Watch this video

Did you watch it? No? Go and watch it.

Ok. Now do you realize how ridiculous you sound when you act like there’s only one person in the world for you? Do you realize they’re not perfect like you think they are? That they have flaws just like everyone else? Do you understand that even if you and them aren’t together your life will go on? Do you?

Ok. Good.

Now can you guys please try to work on yourselves instead of pouring every ounce of energy into some daughter? There are billions of women on this planet. BILLIONS! If things don’t work out with the one you’re preoccupying over right now it’s OKAY. You’re going to be fine. There’s another daughter out there who’s just as cool and perfect and hot. And she’s looking for a guy like you.

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To all of you out there who are focused on “this one girl” https://www.date4guys.com/to-all-of-you-out-there-who-are-focused-on-this-one-girl-4/ Sat, 15 Apr 2017 22:53:50 +0000 https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/63oc1n/to_all_of_you_out_there_who_are_focused_on_this/?ref=search_posts Watch this video Did you watch it? No? Go and watch it. Ok. Now do you realize how ridiculous you voice when you act like there’s only one person in the world for you? Do you realize they’re not perfect like you think they are? That they have flaws just like everybody else? Do you […]

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Watch this video

Did you watch it? No? Go and watch it.

Ok. Now do you realize how ridiculous you voice when you act like there’s only one person in the world for you? Do you realize they’re not perfect like you think they are? That they have flaws just like everybody else? Do you understand that even if you and them aren’t together your life will go on? Do you?

Ok. Good.

Now can you guys please try to work on yourselves instead of pouring every ounce of energy into some daughter? There are billions of women on this planet. BILLIONS! If things don’t work up with the one you’re preoccupying over right now it’s OKAY. You’re going to be fine. There’s another daughter out there who’s just as cool and perfect and hot. And she’s looking for a guy like you.

Read more: www.reddit.com

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No luck on Tinder/ Bumble https://www.date4guys.com/no-luck-on-tinderbumble/ Fri, 14 Apr 2017 23:05:46 +0000 https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/639zl9/no_luck_on_tinderbumble/?ref=search_posts I’m a 22 year old woman living in a good-sized college town. I’ve been trying to use Tinder and/ or Bumble to meet new people, as my circle is relatively small since I graduated from college, but I’m not having a lot of luck. I get perhaps 1 decent message or response per week( Tinder) […]

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I’m a 22 year old woman living in a good-sized college town. I’ve been trying to use Tinder and/ or Bumble to meet new people, as my circle is relatively small since I graduated from college, but I’m not having a lot of luck. I get perhaps 1 decent message or response per week( Tinder) or 1 decent response( Bumble) for every 5-7 messages I send out.

I feel like I’m reasonably attractive( not a 10, maybe a 7 ?) and I have varied interests the hell is showcased in my paintings. I have a normal chore with a reasonable wage. My description is short and doesn’t have anything crazy or super out-there/ off-putting. I can’t figure out what I’m doing wrong. I feel like most women on these apps get nonstop attention and even unwanted messages, but I can’t get anyone to talk to me or sustain a good conversation. The last thing I require is more rejection, but I don’t have many good ways to meet new guys.

Does anyone have any tips-off? What builds you swipe right on a girl? Do any other women feel this route?

TL; DR Normal, somewhat attractive 22 year old woman can’t get matches on dating apps. Advice?

Edit: Potential answer (?): After browsing some previous Reddit threads, I came to the conclusion that it might help to delete my profile and make a fresh one. Last year, I did have some less flattering photos( shorter hair, heavier, etc .). By resetting, I can see more/ different people who might not have liked my older paintings and could never insure new ones. I did this and get more matches in a hour than I typically do in a week. So, thanks Reddit?

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