Never run out of things to … ASK: Asking open-ended topics is key having longer and more interesting conversations. In suit you want some inspiration on what you could ask your conversational partner, here is a list with a ton of questions I’ve put together.

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The Big List of Open-Ended-Questions

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What do you do for a living? How does someone get into that job? What’s the most challenging part about your job? What do you love most about your job? If you could start over again, would you choose the same career? How would you describe your job to a 6-year-old? What was your childhood like? What is your favorite memory from your childhood? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s? As small children, what were you most afraid of? Which wallpaper hung on your wall when you were a child? What was your favorite piece of clothing you owed as small children? What would change about the way you were raised? What is the weirdest thing you believed in as small children? What were your best friends like when you were small children? How close are you with your family? What is your relationship with your family like? When was the last time you argued with your parents and why? What do your mothers do for a living? What were your favorite family vacations? What do you admire most about your mothers? What is your biggest anxiety? What anxiety would you like to overcome? What’s the one thing that drives you crazy? What is the weirdest thing you have ever eat? What are your favorite midnight snacks? What is your favorite food and why? What kind of food do you detest most? What food did you like as small children that grosses you out now? What do you and your friends do for fun? How did you meet your best friend? Have you ever been in love with your best friend? How has your circle of friends changed over the course of their own lives? What qualities do you value most in a friend? What do you think is the best way to make friends? What do you want to be doing in five years? How do you foresee their own lives after college? What was the worst purchase you’ve ever constructed? What was the hardest thing you have ever done? What’s one mistake you keep repeating? Have you ever started writing a book? What happened? Which recent news story stuck with you the most? What is your most terrible memory? What was the best birthday gift you’ve ever had? As a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up? What was the best birthday you ever had? What was the best party you have been to? Why do you think there are so many religions in the world? What is your opinion about( recent news story )? What do you detest most about first dates? What do you like most about your country? What do you think about[ enter topic ]? Is there something that you’ve dreamt of doing for a very long time?* Why haven’t you done it? What are your passions in life? What motivates you the most in life? What makes “youre feeling” deterred or disengaged? What is your biggest goal in life? If you had to choose one activity that you had to do every single day for the rest of their own lives, what would it be? Do you have any scars? How did you get them? What is the first thing you recollect after your birth? What has caused you the most emotional pain in their own lives? Have you ever believed in God? Do you still believe ?/ Why did you stop? What do you do when you can’t fall asleep? What makes you relax? What do you value most in a friendship? What does friendship mean to you? What are you most proud of? What do you like about yourself/ dislike about yourself? What do you like to do when you want to relax? What’s your favorite way to waste time? What was the highlight of your week? When do you feel most alone? What are some strange believes that you have? Have you ever won an awarding? What was it for? What’s the strangest dream you’ve ever had? What role does fund play in their own lives? For what in their own lives do you feel most grateful? What is your favorite movie? What is your favorite piece of jewellery you own? What is your favorite type of clothing? What are you doing with pleasure, that others don’t enjoy at all? Would you like to be famous? In what way? Who is your role model/ mentor? What is the greatest accomplishment of their own lives? What is the one thing that constructed you improve the most on a personal level? What was the most severe period in their own lives? What do you do to improve your mood when you are in a bad mood? If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be? What does a perfect day look like for you? Do you have a morning ritual? What is it? What is the best piece of advice you’ve received? If you could sit down with your 15 -year old self, what would you tell him or her? What was your New Year’s resolution this year? Did you transgress it?* How long did it take you to break it? What turns you on most? What is your favorite sexuality stance? What was the craziest sexuality dream you’ve had? What do you think about SM? What would you like to try sexually, that you haven’t tried yet? What is an experience that the opposite sexuality can have and you can’t, but that you would like to induce? Do you have a secret nobody knows about? Tell me about it. When was the last time you pee-pee in your pants? When did you last cry in front of another person? What is the closest you ever gotten to being famous? What’s your funniest “drunk” narrative? What was the most embarrassing moment in their own lives in so far? What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done? Have you ever experienced something paranormal? What is your craziest dating narrative? What was the weirdest sex experience you ever had? What type of porn do you watch the most? Which book are you ashamed to admit you love? If you ruled the world, what would you change? If you could go back or forth in time but never come back, what would you do? If you had $10 million in the bank, what would you be doing differently? If someone could tell you the truth about the future, what would you want to know? Given the choice of anyone in the world, alive or dead whom would you want to have a meaningful conversation with? If you knew that in one year you died abruptly, would you change anything about the way you are living now? If tomorrow was your last day, how would you expend it? If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told person? Why haven’t you told them yet? If you could choose a superpower, what would it be and why? What would you choose to eat if you had to eat it every day for the rest of their own lives? If you could master any tool, what would it be? What would you do if you only had 7 days left to live? If you could have any animal as a pet, what animal would you choose? What three things would you bring to a deserted island?