I’m a 22 year old woman living in a good-sized college township. I’ve been trying to use Tinder and/ or Bumble to meet new people, as my circle is relatively small since I graduated from college, but I’m not having a lot of luck. I get perhaps 1 decent message or response per week( Tinder) or 1 decent response( Bumble) for every 5-7 messages I send out.
I feel like I’m reasonably attractive( not a 10, maybe a 7 ?) and I have varied interests the hell is showcased in my paintings. I have a normal job with a reasonable salary. My description is short and doesn’t have anything crazy or super out-there/ off-putting. I can’t figure out what I’m doing wrong. I feel like most women on these apps get nonstop attention and even unwanted messages, but I can’t get anyone to talk to me or sustain a good conversation. The last thing I require is more rejection, but I don’t have many good ways to meet new guys.
Does anyone have any tips-off? What constructs you swipe right on a girl? Do any other women feel this way?
TL; DR Normal, fairly attractive 22 year old woman can’t get matches on dating apps. Advice?
Edit: Potential answer (?): After browsing some previous Reddit threads, I came to the conclusion that it might help to delete my profile and make a fresh one. Last year, I did have some less flattering photos( shorter hair, heavier, etc .). By resetting, I can see more/ different people who might not have liked my older paintings and could never consider new ones. I did this and got more matches in a hour than I typically do in a week. So, thanks Reddit?
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